It is of my belief that if you love me, you cant burn me continuously and as I stated, that’s my belief. When a man decides to sleep with another woman, even if he makes a mistake once, if there is love, he won’t do it continuously. You should see the face of your wife or the woman you are committed to every time you think to get intimate with any other female. A man will tell a woman he loves her, that he is just weak and the other females mean nothing to him; but do these other females know this? Are they as detached as he is? When they call him, does he show up? Does he put them before you? Does he seem to come to their rescue way too often? Tell you he is broke but finds money to go to their house? Does he barely have time to stay up and have conversations with you but has time to go visit, text and call them for what seems like all the time?
A man will draw the love card when you find out about his wild behavior. He will draw cards like
-“baby I love you”
-“its all about you, not those other girls, they mean nothing”
-“I could never cheat on you, shes just a friend”
-“I thought we decided to love and forgive”
-“I was wrong but I love you and I have changed”
plus a whole long list. All this while you sit and try to find reasons you love him and reasons you should stay instead of reasons you should go. Honey don’t be sidetracked, keep in mind that if you don’t see or feel the change, there is more than likely no change. I am not saying he does not love you because with all his heart he might. There may be confusion in his life and way too much distractions; the question is: are you willing to sit around until he has matured?
You have the power to leave or to stay thus, if you decide to stay through the pain in the name of love, you my friend have chosen to be burned in the name of love.